It took me years to re-learn how to be angry, and longer to learn how to have a healthy level of anger. They got angry when I was secretive and moody and I flinched when they came up too suddenly behind me. Back then, neighbors were like family so they acted sometimes better than family and had an understanding about spanking e/o's kids. But it was the cheeks at the opposite end of my anatomy that had all my attention and those cheeks were blazing. About a year I was only spanked, sometimes on bare butt but pants was slipped off only as necessary for bare butt spanking.

I remember on one occasion Cedric, who was dressed rather as he is in the picture in only his underwear, was obliged to present himself across Uncle’s rather bony legs for a severe spanking with an American-style wooden paddle. But then parents registered I am fairly shy (It seemed their preceding upbringing to free body had gone to nothing during my starting puberty. Additional content warning for Deborah and Janet’s stories: descriptions of sexual arousal and sexual abuse from corporal punishment. Spending over a decade planning out how I would go into my father’s room at night and stab him to death.When she’d burst into the bedroom I shared with my siblings, I very quickly tried to tell her that I wasn’t the one talking, or I just pretended to be asleep. Additional content warning for Polly’s story: descriptions of sexual arousal from corporal punishment. They probably prayed and cried a lot, and talked in hushed tones about what to do, but they never made the connection in their mind.

Then, whenever I was trying to survive those moments in which I waited in dread of the impending spanking. I have come to understand that being raised strictly is not something for which I should feel any sense of shame.I was immensely grateful for the skirts I had to wear because I could hide the fact that I wasn’t locking my knees out and therefore could clench as I heard the rod whistling toward me. When I got angry and blew up about something, my dad would assign me to find verses from Proverbs about anger and copy them in good handwriting. I knew that I could get spanked for things I wasn’t even involved in, like my 3 year old brother talking and shouting when we were all supposed to be asleep.

I’m quite pleased that you willingly take responsibility for your younger siblings and you’re a great help to me. This was the specialness of my parents; when punishment has been administered there is no hesitation to initiate reconciliation and remind us that we are always loved.Ultimately, "you want the child to do what is right because it is right, not because you're going to get hit if you don't," Grissom said. he always did that to give a thorough punishment without making me take down my panties in front of him. The American Psychological Association says the negative message a child gets from a spanking is: "If you love someone and need to correct or control them, then in certain situations it is OK to hurt them.